The other day we discovered that Tyler does the funniest thing. I'll just let the video do the explaining. Enjoy!
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Monday, December 21, 2009
Daddy and Tyler
Tyler's One Month Birthday
I can't believe my baby is already a month old! It's bittersweet. Since his one month birthday was only two days after his four week birthday not much changed. He is smiling more and more and just a growing, handsome boy.
I love his little froggy pjs! Look at those feet.
Check me out!
What's you doin' ma?
Check out my dance moves!
Tyler's Fourth Week
The fourth week was so fun! He started to socially smile for the first time! It isn't consistent, but every once in a while if he is focusing on our faces he will smile at us! I LOVE IT!! Some nights when he seems to want to wake up every hour and I've about had it, he'll give me one of his little smiles and I'm all better - no more frustration. He already knows how to manipulate mommy. This week he also rolled to his side for the first time. I have yet to see him do it again, but he did do it, once. He is starting to make some many cute noises and just loves to kick and move. He still stares at his "angel friends" most of the time (or off into space - I like to call them his angel friends because it looks like he is really staring at something or someone when in all reality its just a wall). But he is getting more and more alert and responding more and more. It's so much fun to sing and play with someone when they respond! He is just so cute and sometimes I just want to squeeze him!
Cute baby Tyler.
A little smile for mommy.
More little smiles.
Seriously, could he be any cuter?
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Tyler's Third Week
Tyler's third week was our first week alone together. My mom went back to Oregon and Mark went back to school. I thought I would be scared, or lonely, or bored, or all three, but I was actually just fine. I loved being able to play and spend time with my baby. And bored? HA! The days went by so fast! I always wondered how it was possible that a mother of one little baby could really be that busy. I so didn't know what I was talking about. It's amazing how full your days are with a little baby. Full and fulfilling. This week Tyler and I started playing more games together and he seemed to respond even more. It's incredible how fast they grow up, develop, and get older looking! We started reading books, exercising, playing eye games, patty cake, more singing, more making faces, more everything. We were never bored or lonely. We just had fun together!
My little man. I love the hair!
Let's be honest, I also love sleeping myself - especially when I can cuddle with Tyler!
Hello, Handsome!
Tyler exercising his little legs.
Tummy time.
Tyler's Second Week
The second week of Tyler's life was full of firsts: first Thanksgiving, first real bath, first reflex smile, first faux hawk, first time meeting several aunts, uncles, and cousins, first semi-professional family pictures, mommy put on makeup for the first time, first time in something other than a sleeper or onesie. . . good times.
This week was spent having more fun with Tyler and taking more pictures. He started having more awake time and it was so fun to play, make faces, and sing to my little man. We just love him to pieces!
First real bath. He was not a fan that first time. No worries, now he is just a little fish - loves his baths! Oh such a sad face!

Phew! It's over! Can't a guy get a little peace and quiet around here?

Cute little man outfit and the first time we saw what his hair could really do. Look at the faux hawk. That's how it dried after his bath. He was rocking it!
Just a cute picture of Tyler sleeping. The hands are always up by his face.
Well almost always up by his face. This was his first time out of a sleeper and our first semi-professional family pictures. I'm not a fan of them, because I was barely a week past delivery so I still wasn't looking my finest, but of course Tyler was adorable. This is just a shot Mark took.
This was after Thanksgiving dinner. We were all just hanging out on the couch.
Cute little Tyler face.
Mommy loves Tyler!

Another ever so interesting video of Tyler at 2 weeks.
Tyler's First Week
Alright, trying to play catch up here. I've divided my pictures into weeks. This post is his first week, leading up to his one week birthday. This whole week was a blur to me. I was still healing and still needed help getting up and sitting down, but regardless, I just reveled in my new baby. He is such a good baby! So happy and content, hardly ever crying. He is just perfect. That week I held him for hours and hours and just looked at his perfect little everything! One of my favorite things are his hands. He has such big hands for a baby. Mark says so he can palm a basketball. I say so he can play the piano and reach those crazy chords. I was lucky to have my mom here and Mark was off for Thanksgiving, so I was able to spend as much time as I wanted with Tyler. Sure he slept most the time, but it didn't matter. I just loved looking at him. Sometimes I just wanted to squeeze him! He is just so so cute!!
This week we also had his first well baby appointment. The doctor said he was strong and healthy and every single nurse commented on his little handsome face. The funniest part of the whole appointment was the beginning. Up to this point, Tyler had only had little poops and we had been spared any jetstreams of pee, but at the doctor's office, once we had that diaper off he, first, gave us a little fountain show of his own making and then came the world's longest pooping session ever! I swear it lasted a good 5-7 minutes. I would wipe only to have more come out! (I know you really want to hear all this, but it was funny. The nurses were dying). And Tyler was just chill the whole time. Probably felt good to get all that out...
Here is documentation of that moment, plus look at his hands:

However, that doctor's appt. also marked the beginning of my brief, yet poignant baby blues experience. The doctor said he had lost weight, which most babies do, but that she wanted to have him come back for a weigh in. On his one week birthday we brought him in for the weigh-in and he hadn't gained a single oz. A well meaning nurse only made things worse when she "advised" that we supplement and told us that if he kept losing weight he would have brain development problems. As a brand new mom I already felt inadequate and now I felt for sure I was killing my baby! And thus the crying and anxiety began. It only lasted about two or three days, but for those few days I think Mark thought for sure his wife had gone off the deep end. Luckily, all was well and at his next weigh-in two days later he had gained a solid 3 oz!
Anyway, even with all that crying and anxiety, I still enjoyed every second with my baby! Here are some more pictures for your viewing pleasure.
Haha, now that outfit hardly fits him and he was drowning in it then.
With big hands comes an uncanny ability to gauge eyes out and thus for this first week he was almost always in little mittens.
He loves sticking out his tongue!
So little!
Mama's boy.
Father and son.
Second family picture the day after we came home from the hospital.
A video of Tyler - one week old. I know he's just laying there, but he does yawn and sneeze and besides, he's just so stinkin' cute!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Tyler John is Here!!
Alright, I am finally updating!! Yay!! Even though Tyler is now almost a month old - WHAT?? Time flies way too fast. Anyhoo, I figure I should start at the beginning...well the beginning of his life outside of me. Here we go (PS its long...if you want you can skip to the bottom for pictures):
You know how in the movies the pregnant woman goes from being totally fine to full on labor in a matter of minutes? Well mine was kind of like that - almost.
I was due November 20th, a Friday. The Tuesday before, I was REALLY tired and sick (did I mention that at this point I had had a cold for 3 weeks, going on 4??) I went home and just laid down and tried to sleep. Suddenly, around 3:30 am, I woke up with pretty bad pain - no building up for me - just BAM. No I did not say, "Honey, it's time." Mostly because I had no idea what the pain was (you see, I was kind of in denial that I was going to have the baby any time soon because all the doctors I saw had said he was small and would most likely be late) plus I didn't know what contractions felt like. So I went out to the couch to wait and see if the pain came back and then if they were actually contractions to time them. By about 4:30 they were coming fairly regularly, about 8-10 minutes apart and they were starting to hurt quite a bit. So I called my mom - yep I called my mom at 4:30 in the morning. She said it sounded pretty real. I was still uncertain. My hospital is an hour away so I didn't want to go all the way down there just to be turned back. I decided that I would just wait it out a bit and see if it kept up and got closer together. I had an appointment that morning down there anyway. My mom on the other hand, with an intuition that can only be motherly, was certain enough that she got out of bed at 4:30 and got ready so she could try and hop a flight down here. I continued to time and breathe and by 7:00 they were 6 minutes apart and eye squinting, catch your breath worthy. I decided to call labor and delivery and see. They told me my voice didn't sound like I was in labor (amazing they can tell just by listening to your voice - sense my sarcasm?) and that I probably wasn't. Plus, I had an appointment down there that morning anyway, so if I really was in labor the doctor could tell me for certain. Since these people were nurses and I believed them, I told Mark to go ahead and go to school as this was apparently false labor. However, I still needed a ride to the doctor. There was no way I was driving for an hour in this kind of pain. Luckily, my awesome friend, Ceri, was willing to drive me down and wait with me. (Ceri, you're the best!) So around 8:45 we left and those dang contractions just kept getting closer together and more and more painful. By the time we got to the doctor's office, they were a good 4-5 minutes apart and I was beginning to wonder how much worse "real" labor was because this false labor stuff was killer. Somehow I managed to waddle into the office, check in, and sit down - all while trying to act like I was totally fine. The nurse called me in and checked my blood pressure - in the midst of a contraction that I tried to sit through nonchalantly. I must have done a pretty good job because she freaked out when she saw how high it was. She asked me if I had a history of high blood pressure and I said, "No, I was just having a contraction. (smile). She gave me a funny look and then went to get the doctor. He came in and asked me how far apart they were. I continued to insist it was false labor since that was what labor and delivery said. He went ahead and checked and said, "Well, how would you feel about being 100% effaced, 5 cm dilated, and on your way into transition?" How would I feel? Are you crazy? You mean this has been real labor the whole time and I kept acting like it was nothing and like I felt fine?? No wonder it hurt! So he ordered a wheel chair and Ceri and I walked/wheeled across the street to the hospital and into labor and delivery, while I called Mark and my mom - who unfortunately was still having a hard time getting a flight. Anyway, they checked me in, got me in bed, IV'd me, and ordered the epidural. I had had enough of the pain...it was time for a little peace. Before the epidural guys came Mark had arrived and both he and Ceri helped me breathe through the contractions as they were now eye squinting, teeth gritting, hand squeezing, slight moaning worthy and coming almost every 2-3 minutes. Where were those dang epidural guys?? Once they got there the nurse ordered Mark and Ceri out and said in 15 or 20 minutes you will come back to find a much more comfortable and happy mommy. Good only 15-20 minutes more of this nonsense. No such luck. 45 minutes later I was still hunched over, trying desperately not to move for fear of paralysis, and wondering how much more I could take! I have a difficult spine apparently and once they finally got the right spot, they couldn't get the catheter in!! OH THE HUMANITY! Finally, after about an hour they were done and the nurse said, "Well lets just check and see if you've progressed at all." (a minute or so later) "Would you believe you are at a 10!?!?" (excuse me for a moment of bragging and self congratulation) Would I believe? You mean I got all the way to a 10 hunched over, without medication? I am one tough mama! Take that all you naysayers who thought I would be screaming in pain! Even the nurse said so. When Mark and Ceri came back in she told them where I was and said, "She is one tough cookie, many women couldn't have done that and been so still and quiet" HAHA!! Victory! (Ok moment of bragging over). So, even though I was at a 10, Tyler still had not progressed very far down and the nurse gave me the option to go ahead and push and probably push for a long long time or, since I wasn't in pain anymore, to "labor down." Where you just keep on laboring and let the body push the baby down further so you don't have to push as long. I chose labor down, plus we were still hoping my mom would make it in time. It was a good choice in the long run, because I wasn't ready to push for an additional 4 hours and I got to take a nap. A little before 5 I told Mark that I maybe felt like pushing, so he and Ceri left to find the nurse. In she came, Ceri and Mark both took their stations at each leg, and away we went. (An aside: My poor mommy barely missed it. Her flight arrived as I was pushing. But I am so grateful to Ceri for staying and helping me out. She was an awesome coach! Mark was great too and held my hand and fed me ice, but Ceri was the coach...they were a good combo!) Then at 5:38, November 18th, out came Tyler - all 7 lb 14 oz and 20 inches of him. (Those doctors and their estimates. They thought he would be small and late and he was actually pretty big and early!) He was healthy and thriving and the cutest little baby I have ever seen! The rest is pretty much normal. My mom and Mark's mom came and oohed and ahhed over their new grandson. Mark and I had our first night alone with our baby - though Mark did most of the work that first night. (Another aside: This event proved to me again how awesome Mark is. I tore pretty bad and was unable to do anything by myself - get up, get down, walk, go to the bathroom, change, pick up the baby, change the baby, etc. Mark was a doting and wonderful husband, helping me at all hours of the night go to the bathroom, change, get the baby for me, change the baby, you get the point. He is amazing!) The next day we went home and its been a learning, growing, absolutely life changing experience ever sense. I knew you could love and I had heard how much you love your baby, but I didn't fully comprehend it at all. Its a bond and a feeling unlike anything I have ever experienced! I don't even have words for it. All you mothers know. I love my son more than anything and I would do absolutely anything and everything for him! . . . and I will leave it at that. The end. And now some pictures.
Me after the epidural...see I'm smiling :)
Tyler John and mommy soon after delivery.

Thursday, August 27, 2009
New Top 10
I feel like David Letterman with my top 10 lists. It's just so easy. I could have a new top 10 every day. So here we go.
10. A girl peed her pants three times in two consecutive days. Two of those times happened while we are on a potty break. The third time happened while she danced around the room, holding herself, yet refused to go to the bathroom - until, obviously, it was too late.
9. A girl told me her throat hurt and then 5 minutes later threw up. Wait a minute. I thought your tummy hurt when you needed to throw up - not your throat. Silly me. The next day, a boy told me he felt fine (I asked about all body parts - does your head hurt? No. Does your throat hurt? No. Does your tummy hurt? No. Do your ears hurt? No. Are you tired? I guess.) And then 5 minutes later he comes running up to me, hands over his mouth, alarmed look in his eyes. GET TO THE TRASH CAN!!! Too little too late. Two pukers in two days. Go figure.
8. In the middle of class a boy suddenly yelled out, "I QUIT!" To which I replied, "ME TOO! Let's get out of here!" Luckily he thought that was funny and fixed whatever caused him to become so frustrated with 5 year old life that he felt the need to quit.
7. I told one of my boys that he needed to stop walking like a dinosaur and start walking like a boy. To which he replied, "I'm not a dinosaur. I'm a monster." Oh excuse me. Since you're a monster then, by all means, continue running into people and rolling your head around until you fall over.
6. During an alphabet recognition assessment: Me: "Ok, point at the letters and tell me which letter you see." Boy: "4, 7, 1, 15 . . ." Me: "Wait, wait. Are you looking carefully at these LETTERS?" Boy: "Yes. 6, 9, 12, 16. . . " Me: "So and So, these are letters, not numbers. You know, A B C . . " Boy: "I know. 14, 16, 3, 2, 8." Me: (I give up).
5. During a different alphabet recognition assessment: Me: "Tell me which letters you see." Girl: "A, E, E, E, E, E, E, E, E . . ." Me: "Make sure you look carefully at the letters. They aren't all the same." Girl: "I know teacher. G, G, G, G, G, G, G. . . " Me: (I give up).
4. Heard yelled through the classroom: "Teacher! So and So says I'm a tattle tale." Me: "Guess what you're doing right now?"
3. A little boy tattled on a girl saying that she had said bad words about me. Well, I was not going to let this slide so I asked him what she said. He got all red in the face and whispered, "You have a big fat belly." HAHA! Well, I do.
2. I have been called "mama," "mom," and "mommy" more times than I can count but the best came one day when Mark came into my room for a minute and when he left one of my boys yelled out, "Bye Dad!"
1. This one is just cute: the other day the kids were on the rug and I was sitting in a chair reading them a story. All of a sudden one of the kids noticed a bug about to crawl up my leg. And it was the nastiest, ugliest bug I have ever seen! So I commenced trying to run it over with my chair wheel, but the darn thing would not die. Suddenly one of my little boys came running over, shoe in hand, and smacked the thing. It worked! It died! I told the boy he was my hero and he just beamed all day! So cute!
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Kindergarten Update
Being that my entire life is taken up with school these days - this is pretty much all I have to write about. Even my pregnancy has taken a back seat to this. And I don't have pictures yet, because my camera is at school so I can take pictures of my kids for their things we are making for back to school night. Anyway, I digress. I am happy to say that things are improving. We are definitely working our way into a nice routine and building habits and relationships; and most of the time I really do enjoy teaching kindergarten. I have learned that its best to let bad days and bad moments roll off your back and its even better when you can laugh at it. And so, I give you my top 10 moments of kindergarten so far (that I can remember):
10. I had to drag a kid (literally drag on his bottom) down the hall because he didn't want to come to school and his mom just stood there making it a million times worse. (note to parents: as much as your heart tells you otherwise, it is best to just leave and let them cry it out. They'll stop the sooner you are gone - I PROMISE).
9. I have a girl that I decided is a dog in disguise. She has already chewed through stick glue, a pencil, scissors, her bus card, and a white board pen.
8. I had a boy tell me he had to go to the bathroom and then made a break for it the second he was out the door. A proctor finally caught him in the parking lot. (Where were you planning on running kid? We are surrounded by miles and miles of desert! - no seriously, its like Holes where our school is).
7. When I told a mom that her son didn't know his colors she told me that he was a "free thinker." Apparently colors are relative these days. Blue is not blue folks - it will now be referred to as "water." (that is seriously the example she gave me - that he, at one time, called blue, water. Who knows what his free thinking mind calls it now).
6. I have two boys that think if they close their eyes while I'm disciplining them I will disappear and they won't get in trouble. One will even put a pencil in front of his face as if that hides him.
5. I had one girl tell me she could hear my baby crying from inside my tummy. (Wow - you have really good ears!)
4. I have a boy that finishes every sentence with the statement, "I'm super star smart!" This same kid also insists on saying "Good underwater" instead of "Good morning." I don't know where that one came from.
3. I had a parent demand to know how her daughter scraped her knee at recess. Well, let me think...she fell??
2. All in one day I had boys sent home for: throwing sticks and rocks, biting office staff, punching, pushing, throwing food, and kicking the principal. And it wasn't just my kids. The principal actually declared August 12th, as stricken from the kindergarten calendar forever more (ok not really - next August 12th we'll still have kindergarten, but she did say it).
1. After looking for a student for 30 minutes, he was finally found butt naked in the bathroom. (I don't know - don't ask.)
There are so many more things that happen every day and I just don't remember them. Kindergarten may not be for the faint of heart, but its definitely humorous.
Monday, August 3, 2009
First Day of School
Today was my first day of kindergarten with students and it was . . . well read on if you want to know how it all went down. Within the first hour of my day I had a girl pee her pants, a book lost, 5 kids fall out of chairs, one shelf ransacked, 2 students get lost, 1 kid from another class end up in my room, and 4 kids ask "is it time to go home yet?" Dude you are here for 7 more hours, better get comfy! We spent the first hour before recess learning how to stand and walk in a line. Our next hour was spent figuring out who brought a lunch from home and who didn't. It went something like this, "Who has . . " All hands go up. "I haven't finished asking the question. Put your hands down. Now, who brought a lunch from home?" All hands go up. "Hmm ok, who is eating the school lunch?" All hands go up. Alrighty then. And this is how we sorted it out. "So and so bring me your backpack. Ok you have sack lunch. So and So your turn. Ok you have hot lunch." Kid starts crying. "Why are you crying?" "I have hot lunch." Seriously? And on and on until we had it figured out. The next hour was spent trying to go from our seats to the rug. So each table has a colored caddy on it. As a class we went over our colors and what table was what color and yada yada. I'm no fool I know you have to model and model I did - myself, other students, and on and on until every kid seemed to understand. And once we were ready to try it as a class, this is how it went: "Yellow table, please come to the rug." Blank stares. "If you have a yellow basket on your table please push your chairs in and come to the rug." All kids get up but one. "So and so what color is on your table?" "Blue." Wow! At this point I read a story and we made "First Day Hooray" hats and surprisingly that all went well. Then came time to go to lunch...seriously all I was able to do in half a day was line up, figure out who was eating what, and read a story?? Why did I even plan? After lunch we did a name activity where they traced their name 4 times. I modeled everything - how to get my pencil, how to hold it, how to trace, etc. Once the papers were passed out one kid started trying to write with his eraser. Honey, you might want to turn that thing around or you will have some problems. Another kid exclaimed, "Teacher, look how good I did!" His entire paper was colored black. That's one way to trace . . . I guess. We did some other stuff...yada yada. Finally time for recess again. HALLELUJAH!! More time spent trying to get from seats to the line - "Sweety, you are at the YELLOW table." When we got back it was almost time (ok we still had an hour) to go home. But I had learned my lesson...things in kindergarten take time. So we got out our backpacks and tried to put all the handouts in a folder and in to our backpacks. I learned 5 year olds can't put paper in a folder. I pretty much walked around and did it for them. Finally, all papers were put away neatly in our folders and we had 5 minutes to go before we had to be out at the busses. Too bad for me it took more than 5 minutes to put our folders in our backpacks and on our backs and get in a line and out the door. Thank heavens Mark came in right at that moment and was able to take the bus kids so I could take the walkers and parent pick-up and amazingly enough... everyone ended up in the right line and I didn't lose anyone! VICTORY!! Did I mention the girl that could only say, "Ay Gaunt!" (I learned that that means, "I can't!") But at the end of the day managed to say perfectly clearly, "Teacher, you're beautiful." And the boy who can't speak or understand English? Or the girl that spent the whole day in great spirits and then started bawling the second she saw her mom, making her mom cry too, and then have her mom ask me, "what happened to her?" "Um, I don't know...she was fine two minutes ago." Smooth. How about the time I lost two kids but thought I had only lost one only to have the principal find the one I didn't know I was missing and say, "I thought you said you were only missing one." "Oh well, I ... um.... oops." And so so so many more. And I get to do it all again tomorrow! The good news is that I wasn't the only one that lost kids and I wasn't the only one that only got through lines and lunches in a 7 hour day. Apparently that is how kindergarten is. One kinder teacher told me to expect to do procedures for the first 6 weeks. 6 weeks! And that is the end of my ranting. I hear it only gets better. And for the sake of my sanity I have decided to focus on what we did accomplish. By the end of the day we could: pretty much walk in a line, find our desks without help, and put our hands on our heads and close our mouths when I rang the attention getter bell. YAY!! And seriously I mean YAY!! It took all day to accomplish those three things and I am right there with the veteran kindergarten teachers. I am not behind! Now that is something to be proud of!
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
The Beach Trip
So on Saturday we thought it would be fun to take my sisters to a real California beach. Great idea, right? WRONG! We happened to choose the worst day ever to go to the beach. Hungtington Beach was celebrating 100 years, Hurley was having its official skating/surfing competition, and someone else was hosting its annual volley ball tournament. All of this equals humongous crowds, no parking, and LOTS and LOTS of traffic. The normal 1 1/2 t0 2 hour drive to the beach itself took 3 hours. Driving down PCH trying to find parking (which we didn't) took another hour. And finally, I had to pull over and eat or else. So with the help of our trusty dusty GPS we found a nearby park and spent an hour eating and laying out, trying to get the tan we had come all the way down there to get. After that hour, back in the car we went, in a last attempt/hope to find a parking spot. Here we are in the car, dying of boredom, while waiting in a line to get a parking spot.
Mark still pumped to go to the beach.
Me, Melissa, and Heather behind a towel... hoping beyond hope that this time we'd get lucky and find a spot.

Melissa is bored and sad that our well planned out trip turned into a bust.
Heather won't let me take her picture.
At the beach
Heather and her beloved cell phone.
Mark getting his rays.
Sisters!

Everyone.
Mark and Ceri came with us (lucky them).
So all in all it wasn't the most ideal trip, but we did eventually get to the beach and we had fun. It was a nice break from the 100+ degree weather in Apple Valley and we learned that a pregnant woman must eat in a timely manner or else all hell breaks lose.
The next day, Sunday, my sisters and I sang together in church, and then Melissa said her goodbyes and drove back to Provo. Monday I dropped Heather off at EFY in Redlands and will take her to the airport on Saturday. And then back to school and the usual grind. It was so much fun to have my sisters here and to play in my neck of the woods! I hope they come visit me again!
Lion King and Vegas
This has been a really fun summer! We have had a lot of fun people we love come visit us! First my mom, then Hyrum, and now two of my sisters, Melissa and Heather. Katelyn is in Japan or I'm sure she would have joined in the sister fun. I have divided their visit into two different posts, so this is just the first. Last Wednesday Melissa drove down from Provo, while Heather flew in from Oregon. We spent a fun first night just being sisters and hanging out. Then Thursday we drove to Vegas to see the Lion King. It was AMAZING!! You couldn't take pictures in the actual theater, but just believe me when I say, awesome! I would recommend it to anyone. Here are Mark and I in front of a poster. Am I starting to look a bit big all around now? Yes, yes I am.
We stayed at the Luxor hotel for the night. Poor Mark didn't get to go swimming, his one and only desire. The pool closed at 5 pm (and since we got there at 4 he really didn't have much time) and we didn't wake up early enough for him to swim before check out. Oh well, we still had fun together! 
In front of the Luxor.
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